Nneoma Richard

You can be a feminist and still want to be loved, provided for, pursued and cared for.

Stop second-guessing your standards.

If you've ever been called a gold digger for expecting a man to provide, too demanding for wanting effort, or not feminist enough because you want traditional relationship roles, you're not alone.

Women are constantly navigating this contradiction: “Be independent. Don't depend on a man.” But also, “A good man should provide, take responsibility and make you feel cared for.”

So what are you actually allowed to want?

How to Get What You Deserve From Men Without Feeling Guilty tackles the conversations we're already having—money, provision, dating, marriage pressure, traditional gender roles, boundaries, reciprocity and the uncomfortable question: “Am I settling?”

No “men are the enemy” rhetoric. No telling you to accept less just to prove you're independent.

Just an honest guide to figuring out what you want, what you should expect, and where you're compromising too much.

Don't spend another relationship wondering if you're asking for too much.

Get the book now and learn how to have standards without guilt, receive without losing your independence, and choose relationships where you don't have to shrink yourself to keep a man.

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Read it. Do the exercises. Know your standards before the next man, the next relationship, or the next “when are you getting married?” conversation.